Thanks for the review. I'm not sure what I could have done to help you have a better stay especially since you never made any mention that you had any issues with anything during your stay. It's unfortunate, as most guests know, I make it a point to help guests have the best stay possible.
The size and softness of the antique sleigh bed is pretty well documented in reviews, I'm surprised you didn't find it a concern and didn't even bother to ask about it at all. If you had asked, I probably would have told you (as I've said to many other possible guests) that if you're well over 6 feet tall you may not enjoy the bed. As for the added matress top on the sofa bed, it was placed there as a courtesy to you (a previous guest strongly recommended it); you certainly could have removed it and slept on the sofa bed without it. Fortunately, we have a whole new sofa bed as of the end of June 2018 that is much more comfortable for adults.
Do you think your stay was less than excellent because of your expectations? I'd like to better understand your experience to make sure others can avoid your pitfalls.